Read Her Signs: An Essential Guide To Understanding Women And Never Getting Rejected Again (Dating Advice For Men) by Belmar Stella

Author:Belmar, Stella [Belmar, Stella]
Language: eng
Format: epub
Publisher: StellaSingles.com
Published: 2014-01-02T16:00:00+00:00

Step Up The Momentum

If the dates are progressing well, you’ll notice her really connecting with you. If she’s a shy girl, she’ll become more talkative and she may share some of her secrets with you. She may touch you and she will spend all the time that you’d like with her.

There are women who are trying to play the game and seem hard to get. Not all of them are bad. Some of these women are master manipulators and unfortunately many men don’t see what’s going on. That’s why you always need to remain level-headed. Don’t fall for the sexual fluff and innuendo. Try to stay a step ahead of her, in a good way. Anticipate things, lead your dates, be a fun and easy going guy. This is what will spark more attraction between the two of you. The sexual stuff will come more naturally and you will know better when to initiate what.

As I mentioned at the beginning of the guide, don’t always expect to “read” what a woman is “trying” to tell you. Many women don’t tell anything, they just expect the guy to take charge. So if you’re paralyzed and passive about taking action, waiting on the few precious signs from the girl, you may be waiting forever. This is when you also run the risk to just be dumped into the “friends” zone, since she will give up on having that exciting feeling of expectation of “what’s next” with you.

Very important: there is a certain momentum in dating. You need to be aware of it and slightly step up the energy exchange between the two of you each time you see each other. It needs to be an “up” trend, as opposed to a “downward” energy. This is what will really move the dating in the right direction, and eventually into the intimacy stage.

You can also hint at certain things and see her reaction. A great way to get to know each other is to play a game of question and answer. This gives you the opportunity to find out things about her and disclose things about you without having to be too forward. It’s a great way to build a connection between the two of you and you will become more and more comfortable initiating certain things after you’ve gotten those answers in the game. Just make sure to ask each other questions in turn and do it in a playful way. Don’t be too pushy with sexual questions or innuendo. Just take a gentle approach and once in a while drop in a more daring question.

For example, you can ask questions such as:

What do you like to do for fun?

What’s your ideal date?

What kind of guys do you like: conservative-looking, racy, with a goatee, trendy, well-dressed, clean-shaven etc?

What kind of subjects do you discuss with your girlfriends about the guys you date?

What is your favorite color?

What is the one thing that turns you off in a guy? (Be prepared for this one, but don’t take it personally.

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